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Gender

Why so unhappy?

Two books about men
by Tom Ryan
October 2025, no. 480

What Is Wrong with Men: Patriarchy, the crisis of masculinity, and how (of course) Michael Douglas films explain everything by Jessa Crispin

Pantheon, US$27 hb, 288 pp

The Male Complaint: The Manosphere and misogyny online by Simon James Copland

Polity, $32.95 pb, 208 pp

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Although the tone of their commentaries differs, Jessa Crispin’s What Is Wrong with Men and Simon James Copland’s The Male Complaint are, more or less, examining the same thing: the workings of the patriarchy in general and what specifically has gone wrong, especially in recent times, with what Crispin refers to as ‘the tug of war’ between men and women.

A podcaster for The Culture We Deserve and the founder of bookslut.com, Crispin is also the author of several books, including Why I Am Not a Feminist: A Feminist Manifesto (2017), to which her new book serves as something of a companion piece. Her approach here is sweeping, angry, and occasionally laugh-out-loud funny. Copland is an Honorary Fellow at the Australian National University and The Male Complaint has been adapted from his PhD thesis. Its aspect is academic, and it is forceful and thought-provoking, written with a furrowed brow and raised eyebrow.

 


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What Is Wrong with Men: Patriarchy, the crisis of masculinity, and how (of course) Michael Douglas films explain everything by Jessa Crispin

Pantheon, US$27 hb, 288 pp

The Male Complaint: The Manosphere and misogyny online by Simon James Copland

Polity, $32.95 pb, 208 pp

ABR receives a commission on items purchased through this link. All ABR reviews are fully independent.


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